The End, perhaps?

Or, A Cambodian Style Sunset!!!!

While a sunrise is quite symbolic of new beginnings, a fresh start and all things good; having witnessed both the Sunrise and the Sunset on many occasions from many different settings, I've come to the conclusion that sunsets are just truly magical.

On Monday evening, I arrived at the left lotus pond just outside the Angkor Wat Temple. The sunset itself is opposite the temple so you're not looking directly at it, but every minute between 5:15 and 6:0pm, the setting sun changes the colors of the temple walls and its reflection in the pond.

On Tuesday, I went down to the Tonlé Sap, the largest fresh water river in South East Asia and sat out on the edge of a boat watching the sun set in a distant horizon. I felt like the only person in the world at the moment - just me and the setting sun.

On Wednesday, I sprinted full speed up the Phnom Bakheng. A climb that normally takes 15-20 mins, took me just under 10; as I was late and didn’t have a second to loose… cause yes, a setting sun doesn't wait for you. When I reached the top of the mountain, I could see Angkor Wat in a distance and on the other side the Tonlé Sap. The sun sets somewhat inbetween both these in a far far distance and all you can see are miles of land between you and the sun as it changes the landscape of everything around from a golden orange to red to a bluish purple just as it disappears.

I don’t know what it is about the sunset that makes me feel so at peace and so reassured of all things good in this world. Symbolically a setting sun might indicate an end and yes, as the sun set each evening it gave me time to look back on the day and reflect on things gone by as we near the end. That’s when I realized to me the setting sun indicates a period of darkness and a new beginning just around the corner.

(Alternate translation: The end of one great experience, back to work and new adventures up ahead)

An Ancient Temple, a Lost City and yes, some Lara Croft moments.

Angkor Wat

It is true that the term Angkor Wat is synonymous to any references made to Cambodia. However, Angkor Wat is just one temple amongst several that make the Cambodian experience truly magical. My saying that does not in any way indicate a visit to this large 12^th Century temple isn’t anything less than an unparalled experience, but just that this is the first step entering into a world like nothing else.

The temple for sure is breath taking at anytime of the day and the area to be covered is huge with something to see every minute. Just walking up the stairs across the moat reflects how huge this temple really is. Once in the central area, the somewhat 90 degree climb to the top is rewarding not just because of the views of the city, but because of the art and architecture at the top.

 

A temple sunrise and sunset from the left lotus pond is an absolute must. The sun rises behind the main temple so obviously sunset is across reflecting on the temple but the colors’ during those these times of the day are quite unbelievable.

Angkor Thom

Or, a royal city of Angkor that was lost and forgotten for over 500 years in the Cambodian jungle. Henri Mouhot in his book Travels in Siam, Cambodia and Laos (1858-1860), writes "At Ongcor, there are ...ruins of such grandeur... that, at the first view, one is filled with profound admiration, and cannot but ask what has become of this powerful race, so civilized, so enlightened, the authors of these gigantic works?"

The city wasn’t really lost as the local Khmers knew about it and frequented it, the modern world discovered it much later, and today it is still untouched and must still left to be uncovered.

Typically one enters the city from the south gate crossing the small moat looking up at the gigantic heads carved above the gateway. And we did what is typical and walked though this gateway into the city of Angkor Thom.

Once inside first stop was the Bayon temple and I for sure was absolutely speechless. The temple consists of massive stone carved faces and yet done in such a way that they look very very symmetrical. A lot of climbing is up and across and through is needed to study the detail of this temple

While most people have a Tuk Tuk waiting outside to take them temple hopping, we decided to do some walking and were fortunate to come across the Royal Palace, Baphuon and Phimeanakas all nestled behind the more popular temples. The architecture of each is special in its own way and surprisingly each different from the other. 

The Terrace of Elephants and Terrace of the Leper king are quite popular and agreeably so for the massive carvings along the base wall as well as the work on the main platform.

Apart from these, there are several smaller temples each unique and very quiet and unexplored. For those in search of inner peace, a spot in one of these temples for quiet reflection is a sure way to go!

Temples of the Forest

Think Lara Croft, Tomb Raider and that’s exactly where you’re transformed to…. While that’s how this area may have gotten popular for some, visiting these temples will for sure remain ingrained in my memory for a long long time and not just because I got to pretend I was Lara Croft for a morning.

The forest itself isn't very dence but there's no doubt about how old it must be.

Ta Prohm and the lesser popular Ta Nei and Ta Keo temples are all within this forest and amongst the ancient ruins are the huge roots of huge old trees growing over and above them. They need to be seen to believe they really exist.

Of course, the 2 1/2 days I spent was enough to cover only this set of temples; there are tons more,some smaller and some less significant but each one unique in their own way. Angkor is a world of its own and to survey the lost city in all its magnificence, I climbed up Phnom Bakheng on the last evening. It was a 15 minute climb on a dirt track to the top of this hill where at the top stood not just an ancient temple but a temple from where you could see the sunset  across the entire area.......

...... Angkor Wat on one side, the Tonlé Sap on the other and everything else ancient about Angkor and modern about Siem Reap that exists inbetween.

Same Same but Different!

Is a term I first heard as I walked across the Thai border into Cambodia! It was initially used to describe the difference between the two countries but during the rest of my stay in Siem Reap it became a phase I heard quite often; so much so that after a point I’d started using it while making mental comparisons of my Cambodia experiences to all else familiar.

So what is it about Cambodia, or Siem Reap and Angkor that made it so similar, sorry “Same Same” to any other historic city now modernized and yet so "Different". I think for starters all the ancient ruins are left for you to explore on your own. The experience feels less touristy than many of the other historic sites I've been to; almost like you discovered them by yourself. 

And yes, there's lots more to Angkor than just ancient ruins; walk into Siem Reap and while the town may only be a few blocks end to end, it has bars, restaurants and cafe's comparable to any modern city I've been to.

After getting into the city and witnessing my first temple sunset, I decided to head to “Pub Street” and find out what options I had for dinner. Pub Street and the few alleys next to it are all that make up 

the town center and gosh was I pleasantly surprised when I got there. Yes, I found traditional Khmer food just as I hoped but I also found cuisines from all over the world, Indian French and Mexican included. And lets talk about Pubs like the ‘Angkor What’ for instance it could be picked up and dropped in any party city and would have totally fit in; except for the fact that shots cost just $2.50. Every little restaurant I walked into and ate at was well done up with décor to complement the food being served; it was perfect. 


But the one thing that stood out the most was the fact that everyone in the town was a tourist… never once did I see a local person walk in to have a meal or a drink; they were all the ones doing the hard work. There's a lot of foreign influence to train the locals to cook and manage a restaurant and they've adapted perfectly.

Tip: everyone speaks English and everything is charged in US$!

My Eating Recommendations:

- Khmer Amok (Fish or Shrimp or many other options) - It's one step better than Thai green curry and every restaurant serves it so you can't miss this dish.

- The Blue Pumpkin - Totally addictive ice cream, smoothies and brownies; they have several outlets of their own plus most restaurants serve blue pumpkin ice cream.

- Khmer Family Restaurant - I'm inclined to believe they have the best Cambodian food one can come across... Of all the places, this was my favorite

- Wood Oven Pizza - May not be traditional but they sure do know how to make them here and they smell excellent when you walk into the restaurant, try it at Le Tigre de Papier

“The old market” and the few other night markets in this area were exactly like street markets found in China town, NY or Central Market, KL. I remember the lady outside the blue mosque in Istanbul selling me scarves she declared were hand made in Istanbul, well in Bangkok they were marked Thai silk and in Siem Reap they were stacked neatly claiming to be Cambodian perhaps, I didn’t really want to ask! I have to admit among all the street markets I've seen these were a little less commercial but its getting there. 

There are some things authentic and rare that are definite must buys like the hand made wallets, napkins and cushion covers all from raw silk, locally made scarves and art work on Rice Paper capturing images from various temples in the region.

And finally, the Tonlé Sap... the largest fresh water river in south east Asia where the lake expands to
three times its size during the monsoon season. Like any other river and lake system except for the fact that 2.5 million people live on it. The 'locals' build their houses on bamboo rafts and have schools, temples, a basketball court, a fresh water plant, groceries and of course a floating mobile tower cause who lives without wireless these days. The floating villages were fascinating yet sad, yes same as the conditions in any other underprivileged neighborhoods but just so differently set up. 

Life on a river and I doubt the people of river actually sit out on their boats just watching the sunset as we and rest of the visiting people did, they kept working hard and didn't look up even once as the sun set that evening.

From Bangkok to Angkor Wat (And back)….

Just after Christmas in 1859, the French explorer Henri Mouhot left Bangkok to explore the uncharted regions of Indochina. It took him a year of hacking through thick undergrowth, fending off leopards, leeches and wild elephants before he arrived at Angkor Wat, the jungle-smothered complex of temples deep inside the Kingdom of Cambodia.

Just before Christmas in 2012, I left Bangkok to explore the fairly popular and somewhat discovered ancient city of Angkor Wat. Thanks to tourism and commercialization, it took me a little less than 9 hours to complete this journey.


This is the story of how I got there and back and why I choose the path I did…..


There were a couple of options I considered based on all my research which was:
• Take a 1 hour flight into Siem Reap straight from Bangkok either on Bangkok Air or Cambodian Angkor Air. While this seemed convenient and straight forward, I never did find a ticket for less than $200 one way even though I checking a month ahead.
• Or, break up my journey into two pieces. The first stretch from Bangkok to the Thai border by Bus, Train or Taxi; Cross borders and then the second stretch from the Cambodian border into Siem Reap (the closest town to Angkor Wat) by Mini Van or Taxi.

While I really did want to take the train from Bangkok’s Hua Lamphong Station to the border town of Aranyaprathet, everyone I ran into kept telling me how slow the train is. The train runs twice a day but the one to take and not get stuck at the border overnight leaves at 5.55am. While tickets are only 48 Baht, the train isn't air conditioned and takes 5 ½ hours.

I could hire a taxi for around 2000 Baht, but eventually decided I was going to take a bus as the Mochit Bus Terminal was quite close to my Bangkok hotel and the government buses did sound reliable.

What I heard was that buses take between 3 to 5 hours and tickets range from 160 to 300 Baht based on the type of bus and how well you bargain. I also realized that taking a bus from a travel agent all the way to Siem Reap was a bad idea as they change from bus to mini van based on the number of people and the border stop can be over 3 to 4 hours since they wait for a large group to finish immigration and get lunch making the journey much longer.

So, at 5:30am I left for the Mochit Bus Terminal went to counter 22 paid 243 Baht for a 6am bus to Aranyaprathet. The station was well organized and while everything is written in Thai, it isn’t too hard to find what you need.



Four and a half hours later, I arrived at the border town of Aranyaprathet; there’s a turn off saying border 5 minutes before the bus station and had I known better I’d have probably gotten off there; Since I didn't, I took a Tuk Tuk back to the border from the bus station.



Typically, the drivers start off at 80 Baht for that 5 minute ride and while, I guess the right price to pay is around 50 I didn't argue much and paid 60. Of course the Tuk Tuk dropped us off at a ‘Visa office’ where they wanted to arrange everything from visas to a taxi into Siem Rep; I politely refused all help but did pick up the Cambodia arrival form and left.

Thailand immigration is a long long queue and took over an hour. It was then I realized that not taking the train was a good idea cause once the train reaches at 11:35 the queue gets even longer.

Crossing Borders
I was quite excited as I've never done this before, you literally walk across the Thailand border, 200 meters through ‘no mans land’ and then walk across the ‘Kingdom of Cambodia’ border.  It was also there that I met Samrat, a Cambodian student who spends time at the border. He was trying to be helpful so he kept making suggestions as to what I could do, talked about the local culture as well as the difference between the Cambodian and Thai people. He was definitely not what many travel websites described as annoying touts. In fact, none of the people around like him were annoying, just helpful and working for a small tip.

Cambodia immigration takes just about 5 minutes and is hassle free. I’d already paid the $25 online for an e-visa which I got in 1 day the earlier week. Post immigration a free shuttle bus takes you to the main Bus Station in the Cambodian border town of Poipet. Since there aren’t many tourists there, buses and mini vans don’t leave that frequently as they wait to fill up.

Taxis charge $12/person to Siem Reap while buses charge only $9. A taxi would wait to have 4 passengers before leaving unless you agree to book the whole one for $48 and leave right away. Thanks to the long line at the Thai immigration, I’d met enough people who could share a cab so we left right away.


It was a little after 12:30pm as we pulled out of the Poipet bus station and travelled 152 kms along a very very straight road with bare fields on either side. I arrived in Siem Reap in less than 2 hours and checked into a hotel just outside the town center. Local currency here definitely USD so I didn't even need a money changer.

The town is tiny but hotels are in plenty catering to the many needs of different people visiting this area.

There are a bunch of resort spa hotels on the road entering the town, the town center has many quaint smaller ones and then there's a few closer to the temples. All in a 15 minute radius of each other.



Of course I wasn't going to rest, I had to see Angkor Wat right away…. What I discovered is that while you can get a Tuk Tuk to drop you off for $2-$4 based on your bargaining skills the best thing to do is hire one for $20 a day or $10 for half a day and they take you everywhere you want to go without any hassle.


15 minutes later, I picked up a 3 day entry pass to the Angkor Wat Archeological park. This is valid for all the temples in that area for multiple visits on any three days in a week, perfect since I intended to see the sunrise and sunset from various locations and I had tons to discover.

Once I got my pass, the Tuk Tuk driver took me past the temple walls where the colours of the walls and the reflections of the large trees in the water were unbelievable. As I walked up the steps towards this 14th century temple of Angkor Wat, it was definately one of those moments in my life where I stop and stared in awe.

Coming back was fairly easy. For one the town center has several tour agents offering trips to Bangkok that leave all day and night. As with everything here I discovered you can even bargain and get a good price for the ride; the lowest price I was offered was $9 all the way to Bangkok! My only concern with this was while most of them say they reach in 8 hours, some seemed to think it could take upto 11 due to the border crossing. So, I finally decided to break my journey up into two parts just as I did coming in.

I got one of the tour agencies to arrange a taxi to the Cambodian border for $25 (and no sharing needed). The cab picked me up right on time the next morning and in less than 2 hours, I’d finished Cambodian immigration and was back at the painful Thai immigration point.

Thailand immigration was another 90 minute process, since I already has a visa else it would have taken longer. I do wonder where all the people come from; there’s a stretch of no mans land between borders that has Casinos, hotels and restaurants, but there’s almost no one at the Cambodian immigration, yet, there’s tons of people crossing into Thailand.



After walking across the Thai border, there were plenty of Taxis offering to go into Bangkok for 1900 Baht. The taxi takes only 3 hours so is the fastest at that point, but since I had time I decided to look for buses which meant going to the Aranyaprathet Bus Station first. I kept walking till one of the Tuk Tuks followed me agreeing to the 50 Baht I offered for being dropped  there and I have to say I had the most perfect timing ever. As I was pulling into the Bus Station, the government bus service that dropped me was just driving out. I waved at the driver wondering if he’d stop and yes, he actually did stop so I jumped on and paid the 234 Baht onboard for my ticket to Bangkok.

As I got on I realized that even if I missed this bus, there seems to be many more that leave every hour or so. I hoped the bus would drop me at the closest point to the airport so I could take a cab from there, but it seemed easier that he just drop me back at the Mochit Bus Station.

Travel between Bangkok and Siem Reap was extremely hassle free, yes it did take a good 9 hours each way but it cost me less that $40 round trip. And absolutely, Cambodia was so worth the journey.

“Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?'

So, asked Alice as she wandered along not knowing. And is this a phase I'm going to be using a lot, well maybe not!

They say not knowing is half the fun. For some people I suppose, but apart from the fact that I have a really hard time adjusting to “Not Knowing”; in this world you can’t just show up unannounced.

I've always wanted to go to Cambodia and do it rather differently; without a care in the world and not knowing how I’d get from one place to the next, but planning is inevitable.  For one, you can’t just turn up without a visa and to get one you need to explain how you intend to get there and leave and where you’re going to stay and why. So, yes my unplanned adventure had to be rather planned to some extent.

Step 1, Return tickets to Bangkok.

Step 2, A hotel in Siam Rep (If you’re roughing it out, can a $300/night hotel really be considered as an “I found it and camped out here”? Well I google found it and negotiated really well and got it for $70/night, so of course)

Step 3, Visas for Thailand and Cambodia. A "double entry" visa for Thailand because visa on arrival is only for people who fly into the country not walk across the Cambodian border; Who knew! And an eVisa for Cambodia so that you don't have to worry about the touts trying to hassle you when you try getting a visa at the border.

Step 4, But how do I get from Bangkok to Siam Rep? I have no tickets or reservations but I do have a lot of research. Research that’s ensured I know what the station looks like, what the road conditions are like and what alternate options I have! Between the train, the bus, walking across the border and a short Tuk Tuk ride, I know I'll get there eventually.

Step 5, Explore “The Lost city” of Angkor  Wat. Yes, I’ve seen tons of pictures and read up on travel ideas but as William Hazlitt once said “You know more of a road by having traveled it than by all the conjectures and descriptions in the world.”

It’s true with the amount of information I have and the planning done, I may not have to ask people for directions or what to do next …. But travel brings about unplanned experiences no matter what, so of course I’m leaving home “Not knowing”.

Street Smart in KL.

Dear Jhansi,

I really wish I were coming with you to Kuala Lumpur, but unfortunately I'm not. I've had the most fun shopping and eating out in KL so I have lots and lots of ideas for you. I hope you like it.

Petronas Towers and KLCC

If you come out of the hotel and turn right, walk up the road for about 10 minutes and on your left is the Petronas Towers. At the base of the towers is the KLCC shopping mall which has everything from upmarket brands to more affordable brands. There’s a food court on the 2nd floor which has a lot of variety.

One of my favorite coffee places, San Francisco coffee is in this mall and I love their Cheesecake. Also, if you walk through the mall you’ll come to the garden area with coffee shops facing the garden and fountain; those are awesome to sit around at and do nothing.

The garden itself is super large so you can walk around, they have a children’s play area in the middle amongst other things, so there’s lots to look at. Walking around, you’ll see the entrance to the actual KLCC (Convention Center), go in and down to the basement and you’ll find the aquarium.

The Petronas Towers lets people up to their cross over bridge (The same one Catherine Zeta Jones ran across in Entrapment) but they give out only a limited number of tickets a day. The bridge is open from 9-5 and they let you up in 15minute slots, but unfortunately the tickets are sold out in about an hour once the counter opens at 8:30am. If you wake up early and are jobless, you can go over pick up tickets for later in the day and then come back and go up. It’s a decent enough view of the city.

If you want a much better view of the city, go to Menara KL which is about a 10-15 minute walk from the hotel. You need to cross over and walk past the monorail station to reach this. It gives you a 360 degree view of the city and you can see all the way out to the hills on a clear day. I think it costs about RM 47 to go to the observation deck.

While walking in that direction, after you cross the street you’ll pass by Hard Rock Café, look down the first left turn and there’s tons of bars… some are nice so if you want to go over one evening it’s not a bad idea.

Pavilion and Bukit Bintang

Pavilion is my favorite shopping mall in KL. Take the monorail from across the hotel (The station is called “Bukit Nanas”) to the “Bukit Bintang” station; its just 2 stops away. The Bukit Bintang street area is filled with smaller shops and restaurants; later in the evening you may see people selling things out on the street. There’s a lot of Middle Eastern type food here that you can try.

If you walk down from the station, you’ll pass a couple of smaller malls (Lot 10, Fahrenheit) but at the end of the street is Pavilion. All the international and local KL brands for clothes, shoes and make up are here. My absolutely favorite place to buy shoes is a store called Vincci; they’re part of a group called Padini which has clothes. If you want to buy dresses or nice tops look for Eclipse, Nichi and Forever 21. I like Face Shop for nail polish. The food court in the basement of Pavilion is not bad at all; I’ve eaten in most of the counters and always been happy.

Another mall which is really really worth it is called Sungei Wang, right opposite the station. Its got tons of small shops so you could spend a whole day there. 

Go to Old Town White Coffee…  you absolutely have to; they have outlets all over but I know there’s one in Pavillian and another in Sungei Wang.

If you walk around a bit, or take the monorail one stop further to “Imbi”, you’ll find Times Square. More shops but just ok I think; if you don’t make it there, its ok.



Central Market and Chinatown

From the hotel, turn left, cross the street and walk down a bit, the Metro Station there is called “Dang Wangi”.  Take the train all the way to “Pasar Seni” and when you get off at the station you’ll see a big blue building which is central market.  It used to be just small stores on the street but its been done up and is a nice clean air-conditioned building, but there’s still all the small shops for everything traditional. 

If you walk past Central Market, you’ll find Petaling Street. This is the actual China town area where you get fake watches and bags and everything thing else branded that’s fake. However, what I really like are the bead chains and bracelets that you find here. 

Bargain lots and everything’s super cheap anyway.

Midvalley and Bangsar

From the “Dang Wangi” station, take the train to “Bangsar”. Midvalley is another mall; the stores are similar to KLCC and Pavillion but the layout is different and its huge so is worth going over. Midvalley has a shuttle bus that runs from the Bangsar station to the mall every 20 mins or so; you can catch it when you come down from the station or you could just take a cab.  


The Gardens is another posher looking mall that you can reach by walking through midvalley.

If you get a chance eat at this restaurant called DELIcious as well as Madam Kwans. Some other places that I really don’t mind eating at are Nando’s and Secret Recipe. Again, all of these are chain type places so you should find them at most malls.

From “Bangsar” station, you could also walk up the road a bit or preferably take a cab and there’s Bangsar village which again has lots of shops and restaurants but not in a mall, its outdoors so a nice change. Also there have a lot of Indian restaurants in this area.

If you really really want south Indian food, you should get off a few stops earlier as “Masjid Jamek” and they have traditional banana leaf meals

KL Sentral

“KL Sentral” is one of the main stations after you leave from “Dang Wangi”. There’s nothing much you can do in this area, but if you need a break from shopping and plan on going to the Deer Park, Butterfly Park or Bird Park, you can come over here and take a cab. I’ve never been but from what I’ve heard the parks are quite a sight as the birds are very rare and you get to go really close to them.

Ikea and the Curve

Personally I love Ikea cause I get lots of ideas for home and doing it up just by walking around Ikea. Since it’s a ways off, I take the train from “Dang Wangi” to the last stop “Kelana Jaya” and the mall has a free shuttle bus that runs at periodic intervals (The website has the updated timings).  If you miss the shuttle, there are plenty of cabs outside the station. Ikea, the IPC mall next to it and the other mall Curve across from it are nice to spend a whole day.

Eat at Bubba Gump if you feel like sea food, if not there’s no limit to the eating options here. There’s also a nice Thai place just in front of the entrance.

And out of KL

You should go to Batu Caves, its caves and bats and lots of steps to reach it. Another close by historic place is Melaka. You can find tons of information about them and getting there from the hotel but these are the two closest places worth seeing.

But if you can't get out of KL and want to feel like you're out of the city, walk across to Bukit Nana's and behind the station is whats called "Forest in the city"; they have nature trails and once inside the park you'll feel like you're actually walking through a rain forest area.

Have fun and take lots of pictures.

Love,
Serina.

P. S. I absolutely love the Renaissance, Kuala Lumpur. The staff are warm and friendly and they truly make you feel at home.

Shopaholic and Sister.

It’s not a big secret that I like to shop (as does my sister); ok love to shop… well why wouldn't I? I like clothes and shoes, I love doing up my house with unusual art work and pretty table settings, I enjoy running into the most unusual things and thinking I should absolutely have one of that; and it’s not just what I buy, it’s the whole experience.  

Whether walking through a nice shiny shopping mall or a quaint street bazaar, its 360 degrees of sights and sounds to take in. As you peer through the crowds looking for familiar brands as well as new stores with unlimited potential; the background music or the sounds of from people all around fall into your subconscious and let’s not forget the mandatory cappuccino breaks to look forward to. I think a small portion of my shopping is, I really need something and I have to go out there and get it; the remaining is really, I need to ensure my day is well spent so “Lets shop”!

It’s been said that every activity needs a partner in crime; similarly shopping is never any fun without K. I think it’s because of our similar tastes and lifestyle choices. In fact, I’m going to have to blame our upbringing for this cause as that’s the only reason I can think of at the moment.

So, K and me do annual shopping trips to Bangkok… yes, yes, Bangkok and yes, once a year. The city is also known for its wholesale bargains. Where else can you go to a store to buy a lemon green linen shirt for 650 Baht and via a series of negotiations through calculator and language (mis)interpretations end up buying 5 linen shirts in different styles and colors for 600 Baht. In Bangkok, it almost seems like the more you buy, the cheaper it actually becomes.  So every time either one of us needs a cheerful wardrobe update, Bangkok it is. It’s only a 4 hour flight away, almost like driving to work for some people!

If we’re looking for shoes, where else but to the home of Jimmy Choo! So, not all of us can afford stacking our shoe drawers with Christian Louboutins, Vera Wangs or Jimmy Choos, but we’re women and we need lots of shoes…. Kuala Lumpur to me has never been a disappointment when it comes to shoes and I think Vincci secretly loves me. Between the 2 of us, our KL trips mean at least 20 pairs of shoes. Of course we need that many, I mean there’s work shoes and regular day shoes, flat slippers and evening heels and weekend heels and let’s not forget my mums favorite, wedge heels for a lawn party.

"Sale" all the way to the New York, the land where it all started…. It has to have all started here, every high end brand and budget brand seems to have launched in this city or rather this country, there’s every kind of promotion event to attract the seasoned shopper, and there’s malls and factory outlets and street markets and so much layout variety; Shopping in the US is just overwhelming and I love the Cheesecake Factory lunches, the breaks for smoothies and chocolate shakes, the lets walk through the food court and nibble everything and then let’s get some more dessert after. With all that walking and carrying those heavy shopping bags, any amount of eating is totally worked off.  And then there’s the fact that all those essentials like shower gel and moisturizer seem so much cheaper in this country; thank god US trips have 46kgs of baggage allowance.

And then there’s been the stopovers in Dubai, Singapore and Jakarta just to add some variety and culture to those Shopaholic trips.

Yes, I couldn’t ever have this much fun shopping without K; In fact, I think it’s about time for Bangkok again!

Temples

When I think temple there's a few things that spring to mind; the sound of bells ringing, peaceful chanting, ancient stone architecture that's withstood time, perhaps an elephant, or flowers that add a dash of color...

... And, the reality is most temples don't really look like that. However, in the past week I've actually been to 2 different temples that reflect my views of what a temple should look like.

Sri Bhoga Nandeeshwara Temple at the foot of Nandi Hills is a 9th century temple which I'd never known existed till Maya invited me for her wedding. We set off early Saturday morning and reached the place just 60kms away in a couple of hours; welll, we got caught in bad traffic along the way. Why? Because it was the muslim festival Bakrid and there were hundreds of people steaming down the streets towards the mosque.


But we needed to reach a Temple that day so we drove along, past the city, past the airport, past open countryside, past a railway crossing just as the train passed by and reached this ancient place. Being a wedding, the sandy stone buildings seemed to have come alive with marigold  strewn along the ground. The people around brought in a lot of color and between the priests and the musicians the much needed chanting began!



The Shore Temple at Mahabalipuram, I've been to several times when I was younger. I loved the place and found it extremely fascinating with all the carvings of deities, elephants and other strange things. Also, being a world heritage site junkie, the thought of going to any one of the 962 UNESCO World Heritage Sites is a welcome thought any day. So, middle of a Friday afternoon here I was at this 7th Century Temple on the eastern shore of southern India overlooking the Bay of Bengal.

I don't know whats so special about this place... the intricate carvings; the fact that its faced sand, wind and sea for over a 1000 years and yet looks untouched; that its a comparatively small temple which manages to look overpowering;

Or, maybe its just the fact that its takes my mind on a journey through time as I think about this temple amidst ancient India.

Sri Lanka... land of my ancestors.

My grandmother moved to Sri Lanka, the island country just below the southern tip of India right after she got married and returned to India a few years before I was born, hence I have always heard of this country and its magic and mystery, but to experience it was something completely different.

The journey to this land of my ancestors started off by taking my grandmother back to the country she spent 25 years in so she could meet old friends and distant family and relive all those memories.

My knowledge of Sri Lanka was riddled between bedtime stories, architectural and historical research and tourist information. My experiences of Sri Lanka in those 11 days felt exactly like I relived every bedtime story, every piece of research and every tourist guidebook on this country!


No, we didn't fly Sri Lankan, we flew Air India, which was absolutely pleasant as the flight took off mid-morning and flew so far below the clouds we got the best view of the eastern coastline of India, the historical Rama's Bridge or rather Rameswaram Island and were welcomed by the absolutely greenery of a tropical Island. 

I write this blog for Nana, to capture some of the special things that mum, K and me were able to do thanks to her.

And then we landed - at Colombo 

12 Retreat Rd, Bambalapitiya - A house that looked so similar to my grandparent’s house in Bangalore; it could only be the house they lived in. Everything around this one house seemed to have changed; the multi story apartment complex next door, the small lane at the end of the road (the very popular Marine drive) but this house seemed to have stopped in time.

Chinese Dragon Cafe, on Milagiriya Ave - So the story I've always heard was when my grandmother was expecting my mother, she'd be craving Chinese food and would wait for my grandfather to get back home so they could go to Chinese Dragon Cafe. (But then they stopped going cause someone claimed they served cat meat!! Really!!!)

Well, we went there and this has to be one of my all time favorite Chinese restaurants ever. The decor may not be great, but the food was just excellent.

Green Cabin

Hmmm Chocolate cake... no wait, not just chocolate cake.. they have a whole garden at the back laid out and lit with candles and there's hoppers, lamprais, kottu roti; food that can never be described. They have to be eaten to be believed.

Christ Church, Galle Face

"Play tennis at Church?" seems very unusual but I suppose if your tennis courts were at the back of the church, it might explain why you were playing tennis at church!

 Elephant House - Necto, Ice Cream Soda, Ginger Beer, Orange Crush... why don't they have elephant house in other parts of this world? *Sigh*


P&S - Perera and Sons was a small bakery down the road; No Nana, I've seen really large Perera and Sons all over the country or should I say P&S.

Kandos Chocolates – Once upon a time, a gentleman walked up the road and asked my grandfather if he could taste some chocolate samples for his new business. These turned out to be Kandos, Sri Lanka’s No. 1 chocolate brand. What a coincidence?

Noritake Factory - Who goes to Sri Lanka and doesn't leave without a piece of Noritake? Well definitely not a connosieur of fine dining...

Hikkaduwa - Glass bottom boats and colorful coral reefs... I never could quite imagine what a glass bottom boat was, but the truth is the boats do have a part of their bottom made out of glass and as you cruise along you see the not so colorful coral reefs and the exotic fish that life in this area. Without falling out of the boat or getting sea sick with the tossing and turning, we made it through the adventure ride; adventure yes, not a gentle glamorous boat ride that nana made it out to be.

I completely understand the lack of color tho; once a sanctuary rich in corals, flora, fauna and vibrant marine life, today the Hikkaduwa Coral Sanctuary is not as colourful and abundant as it used to be due to coral bleaching and man-made destruction. While there are many restrictions and efforts at conservation, I know this place will never be the same and to me I will always remember Hikkaduwa, its colors and its vibrancy with my eyes closed, the way my grandmother described it to me.

Sigiria – Or, the Lion’s rock; a picture of which I’d seen years ago in a travel magazine and always aspired to climb. The climb itself isn’t hard and doesn’t take more than 45 minutes. If I lived in Sri Lanka, like Nana I too would have always gone here for picnics, dog and everything else included!

 

Though I have to say, all the terrifying stories I heard about how hard it is to climb are totally untrue; but then again evolving times and tourism, they now have a metal staircase attached to the rock so you can slide right up, no need to ensure your foot’s firmly on every foothold carved onto the rock while you grab onto the metal poles and pray you reach the top! :-)

Marine Drive - The lane at the end of the street , the one that runs along the sea, the one that has a train track between the lane and the sea... Expanded and modernized today but still a road with a train track that runs along the sea. Yes, if I lived here I would go for walks down this road everyday......

...... Nothing, not time, not people, not economic improvement can change the beauty of this "lane". This is how I imagined Colombo to be and I certainly wasn't disappointed.